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28 August 2012

Garbage Bin Women (Living in the 3rd World America)

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Prelude:

My cat Pişi
(who has her own blog, by the way)
came home from me when I returned to the States
after living for four years in Turkey.
Pişi was born in the streets of Ankara.
While I did not remove her from the streets,
I adopted her when the people who snatched her out of the streets
moved on.  As you can see, Pişi moved on with me, and now,
at the ripe old age of fourteen, lives comfortably
in the U.S.A.
She's pretty, eh?  The thing with Pişi, though, is that
she's deaf.  I won't tell that story here, but you can go elsewhere
and read it.  She's also a little bipolar.  She can turn on you when you least expect it,
and when she turns on you, she turns into the wild cat she was born to be.
She's downright nasty, and fights to kill. 
She's the kind of cat who has a little skull and bones drawn on her file
at the Vet's office.  The last time we had her there, even the vet
was afraid of her.  They covered her with a heavy towel, and gave her
her rabies shot, and she was like a wild cat.  They told me never to bring her back.

I believe Pişi is going blind.  I'm really afraid that if she goes blind, she will become wild again.
Not because she wants to hurt me, but because she will feel her  power is gone,
and all she can do to protect herself, when she has lost the control of her major senses,
will be to attack.  It will be her last attempt to control and have power.
She is a very powerful presence.   She is the dominant cat in my house.
I treat her with love and respect, and hope that when she reaches
a point where she can't see, she remembers that, and gives that
back to me.

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from: gpbtelevision

As I said in my last entry, I believe
we are living in Post-First World America;
we are living in America in decline.
It's not that we are being replaced by 
another greater power.  We are being replaced
by our own child:
a global, profit-driven economy
that at its best emulates 
the values America has represented 
for several centuries:
freedom of speech (via the internet)
freedom of belief
equality of gender and race
openness,
honesty
and a basic belief 
in the goodness of humanity.

In the meantime, though,
our power has waned,
our workforce has been emasculated,
our trust in authority, evaporated.
My students are so scarred from the abuse
they have suffered at the hands
of frustrated, equally scarred parents,
of a misguided education system,
of an entertainment world
that promotes instant gratification.

. . . .

from: unrealitymag 

This nation is ill,
and every now and then something happens
that is a glaring symptom of the depth of our illness:

Yesterday, in Niagara Falls, New York,
a five year old girl was found dead, in a garbage bag.
She was murdered by a teenaged boy,
who killed her with his bare hands,
then got a friend to help him dispose
of her body.

And dispose they did,
just like, in 2008, in a young woman was found,
folded in half, stuffed in a garbage bag
and then put out in the trash.
At first, the police ruled her death "accidental,"
the result of an overdose.  They claimed that
she had turned to prostitution to maintain her very
expensive drug habit, and put the the story away.
But everyone knows (and I've written of this before)
that no one who dies accidentally then climbs into
a garbage bag and puts themselves in a garbage bin.
A more recent autopsy has found this woman was strangled,
in a violent rape.
Her murderer has yet to be found.

I do not mean to claim that the same person
is responsible for both of these sad, sad, sad murders.
They have the guilty young boy who committed this week's
crime.  The look in his eyes chills me.

I cannot help but feel that there is a tragic
similarity between these crimes
that ends up being a glaring symptom
of the sickness that permeates America today.

Whoever put these women into garbage bags,
then into garbage cans clearly had no feeling
towards their fellow humans.  They treated them
like something to use,
then throw away.
Those killers
are not human either -- for one reason or another,
they have been led to a point where they
are like cornered animals, like my cat
trapped in a bag, and they are killing
irrationally.  Like wounded wild animals,
they practice whatever potential for power or strength
they have left, and they tend to take it out
against the powerless, the weak, those who
make them feel stronger than they really feel.

No, they should not be forgiven,
but when something like this happens
more than once, I think it's time
for us to consider what this says about us,
the U.S. of A.

Land of the Free.
Home of the Brave.



I'm not sure what the answer is,
though I heard a good idea
at a meeting I went to last week:

it's time for us to create an Adult Culture
in America and in the world
that is kind, compassionate,
wise, human --
true role models for our young,
as we move from a stratified globe
of multiple worlds,
to a single globe
where every individual is respected,
and no one
is put out
in the trash.

from artinwetlands

27 March 2011

Today's Diva: Geraldine Ferrarro


Sometimes she sang right on key:



And sometimes she went way off key:



But there was at least one song she sang
before any other woman sang it --





I honor her tonight.  Dear Geraldine Ferrarro,
may you rest in peace.

18 August 2010

Happy Birthday 19th Amendment



Wow.
I've avoided this blog for a few days,
hoping I'd be inspired to write
something funny.

I know my entries can be
so damned serious,
and perhaps even
difficult and dull.

And I don't mean to be so---
so---
well, I don't know.
Sorry about that.

*

Then I realized what today is:
the Anniversary of the 90th Amendment
of the United States Constitution,
the amendment that gave women
the right to vote in the USA.

Well, let me tell you,
in the larger scheme of things,
that happened just yesterday.
(Don't forget, Makropoulos is
424 years old,
or thereabouts.
(It's been so long, 
I kind of lose count)
And when you've been around that long,
well,
90 years isn't really 
all that long.)

90 years can embrace up to four generations in
any given family,
sometimes more.

I know that in my own current
lifetime,
the women I claim as my grandmothers
were born before
1920,
indeed, they were both young women by 1920;
one was trying to start her own cosmetics company,
the other was driving her own car,
so I imagine they both might have been
quite involved in
the fight.

Actually, now that I think of it:
in Seneca Falls, NY
around 1998,
at an event that I think was the 150th anniversary of

Hillary Clinton was there, too.
I actually have some problems with Hillary,
but on that day she gave a good speech,
and reminded all the women and men present
to not squander that right 
that our ancestors worked so hard to gain for us.

We should really never forget that.


(loc)
(Elizabeth Cady Stanton & Susan B. Anthony)


(Lucretia Mott - from same source as above, the Library of Congress)


Alice Paul
(same source as first graphic)